Esoteric Ebb has a quest reward that makes you slightly less confused about gender. The tl;dr version of that very long text is “Be kind to all”.
And then you can chose between getting a bonus when speaking to either male characters or female characters.
I like this game very much. Highly recommend it.
PS: I am playing as The Cleric


on my first playthrough so no spoilers please
<Esoteric Ebb Spoilers>
I found the expired potion of mirror gender in the warehouse, drank it without hesitation. Now I’m trying to get the psychologist guy to help me.
Fuck i just this second realised I am acting out my own transition.
YEP