To take care of my husband, as a one way street.
People are shocked that he is the one grocery shopping, planning meals and most often executing them. He honestly cooks better than me except for a couple of my specialties and he definitely cares more than me.
That I shouldn’t care a lot about my career now that I have kids and husband. According to some family members I should have dropped it when I got married. First, I like my job. Second, I will not be dependent on my husband - because stuff goes wrong sooo easily! Maybe we divorce, maybe he loses his job. And we would both hate the pressure, and we both like the extra money.
That I should have stayed home longer with my first kid. I actually went to work while my husband stayed home. No regrets, from either of us - and by the way it was pivotal for my career.
Urgh, where to start!
To take care of my husband, as a one way street. People are shocked that he is the one grocery shopping, planning meals and most often executing them. He honestly cooks better than me except for a couple of my specialties and he definitely cares more than me.
That I shouldn’t care a lot about my career now that I have kids and husband. According to some family members I should have dropped it when I got married. First, I like my job. Second, I will not be dependent on my husband - because stuff goes wrong sooo easily! Maybe we divorce, maybe he loses his job. And we would both hate the pressure, and we both like the extra money.
That I should have stayed home longer with my first kid. I actually went to work while my husband stayed home. No regrets, from either of us - and by the way it was pivotal for my career.