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  • h0tbeef@lemmy.ziptoWomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zoneIt is PAID
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    11 days ago

    Upon reflecting I recognize now what the bad thing I said was.

    To be clear, I’m just an idiot and don’t think carefully enough about what I’m saying or typing until it’s already out of my head.

    I wasn’t trying to be discriminatory or exclusionary. I’m sorry everyone. I won’t bother you again.



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    11 days ago

    I apologize, I have a bad habit of not reading the rules (or noticing which sub I’m in, I came in from the ‘All’ feed).

    I’ve just now read the rules, and it definitely says that only women can post, but it was less clear about if men would be welcome to comment (based on your comment it seems like maybe we’re not? [I have ASD, so I often need things spelled out for me explicitly, I’m not trying to be pedantic])

    I’m sorry if I’m intruding, that was not my intention. If this is a safe space I’ll gladly see myself out.


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    Actually I’m now realizing that I’ve seen a few of those happen (I’ve seen the smiling one a lot actually), and have become somewhat desensitized, so they fall into a category of “upsetting but not surprising”.

    I think the hand thing threw me for a bit of a loop because that’s some cartoon wolf shit


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    11 days ago

    I mean, I guess, but I’ve been extremely embarrassingly drunk many times in the past, and I’ve never attempted to kiss a stranger (or any unwilling party, for that matter), on the hand or otherwise

    If someone loses that much of their inhibitions while drinking then they probably shouldn’t drink