Like, do you know when you’re facing North in your dreams?

  • mrsemi@lemmy.world
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    25 days ago

    I had “north sense” for most of my life, but it abruptly turned off while driving one day in my 30s. It was extremely disorienting and distressing. It was gone for a couple years, suddenly came back one day, which was an incredible feeling, like regaining an entire limb I had lost. It went away again the next day, and for the next month I got occasional flashes of it, then it was gone for good. It’s been a decade now and the world still feels wrong. There’s places I go to that don’t seem like the same place because my earlier memories include the directional layout, so now it feels uncanny-valley off.

    In my dreams, I still have my directional sense, just like any other sense. I imagine it’s like anyone else with a lost sense, your dreams hallucinate your perception of the world to properly match your prior experience.

    • Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.world
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      25 days ago

      Holy frijoles, that’s so scary! I have called myself a homing pigeon my whole life because of my innate sense of direction - so having this happens sounds utterly awful. I can only imagine how wrong everything must feel.

      As I’m now approaching my 30-somethings, I have a new and extremely niche fear unlocked, haha

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        25 days ago

        It fucking SUCKED, and still does.

        It still strikes me at odd times while driving that I have no idea which direction I’m actually going. During the first few years of adjustment I actually managed to get going the wrong way on the freeway and didn’t immediately realize it. I had to get a GPS specifically for that reason. Not to plan my route, but just to remind me where I am and where I’m going.

        I cope pretty well now. I had to develop habits that were entirely unnecessary before, like memorizing turns to make sure I’m going the right way when I leave a place I’ve gone to for the first time.

  • ComradeSharkfucker@lemmy.ml
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    25 days ago

    This question was made for me. I have a notoriously good sense of direction and I often have dreams that I remember very well. In short, no, I actually get lost a lot. Getting lost is like a feature of my dreams

  • Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org
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    25 days ago

    Unknown, i almost cant see dreams at all and the handful per year i do see are forgotten within minutes after waking up. So i cant guess how good my sense of direction is in something i almost cant see.

  • Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.world
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    25 days ago

    It’s a little hard to answer for me as this gets into some weird stuff.

    • To begin, I am almost never the main character of my dreams. Either I am embodying some random person, or it’s like watching a movie/ third person mode for some random.
    • Secondly, I suppose, is that my dreams don’t often involve needing to figure out how to get places? Usually we just… go.
    • And lastly, I’m thinking my sense of direction is so innate to me that it doesn’t feel like it’s a sense I lose in a dream. It would be like dreaming about losing my sense of smell or touch. That’s just… N/not really something that happens as far as I’m aware or remember.
  • socsa@piefed.social
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    25 days ago

    It really depends on the type of dream, because there are definitely stress dreams where all of the conflict comes from me being hopelessly lost in a world which seems to shape shift, and all of the maps are wrong and I can’t use my phone, and my crush was like “hey my parents aren’t going to be home for a few hours” but I can’t get to their house even though I’ve been like 1000 times before, and then I wake up in a cold sweat wondering why the primary plot device is not age appropriate.