• FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    [>] responds to this comment by making a 4chan thread complaining about her instead of just smiling and asking “what makes you say that? Would you have written it differently?” like chad would do.

    Groupwork gotta groupwork. It might not have been an insult

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      4 months ago

      this is likely something they are ashamed of and they would like to keep it private

      they don’t know their “condition” is painfully obvious to most people with minimal interaction required.

      owning it is the only way, no need for shame either

      but if they knew how to sell themselves better, they wouldn’t be in that situation in the frist place

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        4 months ago

        they don’t know their “condition” is painfully obvious to most people with minimal interaction required

        Because he’s insecure about it? Or do you have a virgin-radar

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      Gotta tell my coworker today that his code is absolute dogshit and that me and one other guy are going to rewrite the whole thing. He is such a nice person though, I hope I won’t break his heart.

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        4 months ago

        If i was a coder and my code was dogshit i would want to know so i can improve upon it. It’s chill. Frame it as “here’s what I want you to bear in mind when programming something in future”