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not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone to egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days ago

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not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone to egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days ago
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now i almost feel like i dont look/act fem enough for how much people call me “she” (out of niceness) it’s confusion

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    What if I told you that most of those people probably aren’t just being nice, but referring to you in the way that makes the most sense. So many transfems are far more feminine than they think

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      naah xD

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        sorry, I don’t make the rules. Not only are you likely to be more feminine than you think, you’re likely cuter than you think as well

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