• GhostFace@lemmy.today
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    15 days ago

    It’s in the middle.

    He’s not malicious but he’s not warm and fuzzy. He’s very short sighted and he has done hurtful things towards my mother, which in turn made my childhood a bit unstable(cheated on my mother, divorce when I was 8, got back together when I was 17, cheated again). He tries to do nice things for me and my brother but it’s when he thinks about it.

    I’m sure a lot of people would take that over what they have though.

    • LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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      15 days ago

      Middle isn’t great but isn’t horrendous either. Instability isn’t good for anyone especially a child, and it sounds like there’s a lot of disruption with it. It’s far from ideal