• Hacksaw@lemmy.ca
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    18 days ago

    Yeah, I don’t know anyone who doesn’t cum more often from masturbation than from sex.

    • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.org
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      18 days ago

      My interpretation was not that its about sheer volume, but a relative proportion. One might have 2x more orgasms from masturbation than from sex, but if they have sex 1/4 as often then they are “orgasming more frequently from sex than from masturbation”

      However, I do imagine the vast majority of people who masturbate have a near 100% orgasm rate from masturbation.

    • Cris_Citrus@piefed.zip
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      18 days ago

      Yeah, though I also meant that for me challenges with getting off are relational, or at least mental. I get off just fine by myself but usually can’t with a partner. Which is less than helpful lol.