The point is that it doesn’t work the exact same if you just say, you’re not interested. Countless women, myself included, have made this experience. “Not interested” is met with “why not?”, " come oooon" “am I that ugly?” and “just give me a chance”.
You can either spend 15 minutes saying " no" in varying degrees of politeness or 2 seconds saying “I have a boyfriend”.
“Wahhh i walked into a community that didnt cater to me and started shitting on a post about harassment and now i’m being told my behaviour wasn’t good and this community won’t cater to me you are all MEAN and SEXIST”
Fucking just admit you saw the image, thought it was a shitpost and acted accordingly. Throwing a gigantic tantrum just makes you look like a jackass.
It’s always the worst ones that ruin it for everyone.
Also paradoxically the ones you want approaching you are more cautious about it or don’t approach so they don’t get grouped in with creeps like this. It selects for the people who approach women to be more creepy which makes the whole problem worse…
As an aside, telling men “no” does not always work. Sometimes women do need to resort to saying they’re “owned” by another man for men like this to back off. Because ultimately men like this do not see women as people that deserve respect, they view women as objects.
Just something to think about next time you want to believe all men are good and respectful.
Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women’s community is a good fit for them.
What a weird take. How is he disrespecting her if she just says I’m not interested it would work the exact same
Women should chill out a bit I think.
The point is that it doesn’t work the exact same if you just say, you’re not interested. Countless women, myself included, have made this experience. “Not interested” is met with “why not?”, " come oooon" “am I that ugly?” and “just give me a chance”. You can either spend 15 minutes saying " no" in varying degrees of politeness or 2 seconds saying “I have a boyfriend”.
Apparently this is a sexist bubble so please allow me to fuck off and have a nice day. I’ll be blocking y’all now. Thanks for replying.
“Wahhh i walked into a community that didnt cater to me and started shitting on a post about harassment and now i’m being told my behaviour wasn’t good and this community won’t cater to me you are all MEAN and SEXIST”
Fucking just admit you saw the image, thought it was a shitpost and acted accordingly. Throwing a gigantic tantrum just makes you look like a jackass.
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Yeah fuck those idiots. But yelling leave me alone might make the good ones come out
Ok dude, please read the rules for the community now.
Nah? All I did was scroll my feed and react to an image
People are allowed to have wrong opinions then correct themselves no?
You’ve done so and you were never welcome here to begin with. Especially to tell all of us that we need to chill out when men harass us.
We’ve been super polite to you up until now. Please respect this space.
I have a girlfriend!
Fuck off yourselves
No one cares that you have a girlfriend.
Men don’t care you’ve got boyfriends either this whole meme is sexist and overly dramatic
It’s always the worst ones that ruin it for everyone.
Also paradoxically the ones you want approaching you are more cautious about it or don’t approach so they don’t get grouped in with creeps like this. It selects for the people who approach women to be more creepy which makes the whole problem worse…
The meme literally talks about when men harass women. But women need to chill out?
Please read the rules for this community.
Okay I admit I didn’t read that. In that scenario I get you guys
As an aside, telling men “no” does not always work. Sometimes women do need to resort to saying they’re “owned” by another man for men like this to back off. Because ultimately men like this do not see women as people that deserve respect, they view women as objects.
Just something to think about next time you want to believe all men are good and respectful.
I’m aware. I never want to intrude and women don’t initiate in my country so I’ve got strong arms and a sad heart
If you were aware, you wouldn’t assert that men would take a “no” the same way as “I have a boyfriend”.
Read through the comments in this thread. There’s quite a good discussion around approaching people with the intent to date.
Yes I get it yes this is the fourth comment now where I say allright fair enough yes
Read the fucking rules.
Ah sexism
Well why federate at all then
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