But the vast majority of Christians (again, in Western countries) don’t do that, and I strongly doubt OOP’s girlfriend is the exception. So my point is: That ship has kind of sailed.
I wouldn’t say the vast majority. I know people have failed a lot, and I get that, but it’s not an impossible task. It’s even easier whenever both of you believe that you should save yourself for marriage. Far easier than dating a non Christian who’d likely be expecting sex before marriage.
But the vast majority of Christians (again, in Western countries) don’t do that, and I strongly doubt OOP’s girlfriend is the exception. So my point is: That ship has kind of sailed.
I wouldn’t say the vast majority. I know people have failed a lot, and I get that, but it’s not an impossible task. It’s even easier whenever both of you believe that you should save yourself for marriage. Far easier than dating a non Christian who’d likely be expecting sex before marriage.