• FlowerFan@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    1 month ago

    I mean, nice for you, but if others want to get married just let them?

    Why the need to call OP out for wanting to marry?

    • Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works
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      1 month ago

      Is it not traditionalist? And i call it out because i see couple memes here that remind me of the most toxic relationships i had lol, i think it’s important to just throw that out there, there’s nothing wrong with not wanting marriage. A lot of young people feel shame and guilt when they cant replicate what they see in tv ads and stuff and now that im old enough i can confidently tell them, if you don’t like it or feel it you’re totally fine.

      Edit: Plus the consumerism of buying a ring, like i guess yeah i think it’s good for young people to know there’s an alternative to this.