did_you_find_violets@lemmy.world to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 13 days agopurity culture is always about control, never about safetylemmy.worldimagemessage-square69linkfedilinkarrow-up1482arrow-down10
arrow-up1482arrow-down1imagepurity culture is always about control, never about safetylemmy.worlddid_you_find_violets@lemmy.world to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 13 days agomessage-square69linkfedilink
minus-squaredid_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up32·13 days agoi always think of this when someone talks about modesty or purity.
minus-squarevelma@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up28·13 days agoIt’s astonishing how normalized it is to blame victims even to this day. The fault is always with the perpetrator. Always. There’s no amount of flirting, suggestion, chats, clothing, nothing that justifies it. Not even if the victim had been promiscuous. Always seemed pretty simple to me, but some people really struggle with this.
i always think of this when someone talks about modesty or purity.
It’s astonishing how normalized it is to blame victims even to this day.
The fault is always with the perpetrator. Always.
There’s no amount of flirting, suggestion, chats, clothing, nothing that justifies it. Not even if the victim had been promiscuous.
Always seemed pretty simple to me, but some people really struggle with this.