• rumba@lemmy.zip
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    18 days ago

    Nah, sharing is good. The moment though… that’s not the right moment. Meeting phase, fun phase, flirty phase, sharing phase, fun phase, flirty phase, saucy phase. There needs to be a couple eras between exposing emotional damage and saucy times.

    Unless you’re just going for saucy times, then there’s no need to unearth the damage set expatations and have a good time for a while.

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      18 days ago

      Very fair points, I just don’t see any assholes in this story. Just people trying to date and relate to each other and not being a good fit or putting their foot in their mouth. Intentions seem good even if it didn’t end super well was the only point I tried to make.