• Taleya@aussie.zone
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    3 months ago

    Jells, i’m a redhead and would have to bleach the hell out of it so i never went beyond highlights.

    Now the white’s creeping in i’m waiting for the ratio to tip so i can go ham

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      3 months ago

      With nothing but respect (and not trying to change your mind), red hair when it goes a little white is a FIERCE look, but why wait if you want to bleach it?

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        3 months ago

        I hate the smell and feel of bleach. I’m asd with smell as my RAEG trigger.

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          3 months ago

          Ohhh I gotcha, I had it backwards like you wwre waiting to use the bleach not waiting for a lighter canvas to colour :'D

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            3 months ago

            I definitely do not have ADHD. Partner does though! And a big trigger for him is sound.

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                3 months ago

                Honestly we ping all over the palace. ASD mate gets fussy about light levels and fluorescents. I dislike harsh lighting and polyester, but smells will instaraeg me. Partner trips on sounds. Neice (audhd) loses it at loud sounds, asd nephew hates certain tactile sensations and tastes. Everyone has their “i don’t like it”, neurodivergents just have a thinner layer of tolerance.