Fucking hell. Was showing hubs a great video where the poster said point blank “if you’re a guy and you start training for a marathon with a newborn you’re a selfish bastard” and details the drive, discipline, time cost, etc. hubs immediately started bleating what ifs and trying to get into his thick fucking skull that no, you do not get to literally run away, you have a fucking newborn YOUR LIFE IS NOT YOURS was like trying to explain the goddamn rosetta stone to a turd.
Oof I’m sorry you had to deal with that. There’s no room for anything besides sleep, chores, and taking care of the new baby (thus allowing your partner to sleep or do chores). Everyone’s gotta sacrifice the big, super time-consuming hobbies for a while.
Fucking hell. Was showing hubs a great video where the poster said point blank “if you’re a guy and you start training for a marathon with a newborn you’re a selfish bastard” and details the drive, discipline, time cost, etc. hubs immediately started bleating what ifs and trying to get into his thick fucking skull that no, you do not get to literally run away, you have a fucking newborn YOUR LIFE IS NOT YOURS was like trying to explain the goddamn rosetta stone to a turd.
Oof I’m sorry you had to deal with that. There’s no room for anything besides sleep, chores, and taking care of the new baby (thus allowing your partner to sleep or do chores). Everyone’s gotta sacrifice the big, super time-consuming hobbies for a while.