Ugh, like yes explicitly training to be hyper aware is bad and causes anxiety.

But like, many societies will just teach this via the education/social systems.

And in some societies being a woman and not being aware of how to react to flirt/class/advancement is not just getting yelled at but can end up with jail/physical violence where you are in the wrong.

I’m all for making powerful men get to the hyper awareness so that we can change this bull crap.

But I don’t like blaming a mother/parent for teaching their children how to survive the world they live in.

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Alright to anyone who would question this statement. I am a mom, and have had extremely similar conversations with my kid regarding programming and perspectives.

Seriously it’s important for problem solving to not get caught up in perfect solutions or solutions you think are the right path be cause of your own bias’.

Sometimes to solve a problem you are stuck on, or is proving too challenging the best course of action is to figure out why you are trying to solve it that way, and what other solutions there might be.