My dad died 5 years ago. He was not a perfect man, but he was good. He loved his kids more than anything. He died because of a medical procedure that he was too scared to tell us the details about. I miss him a lot. He never got to know that he had a second daughter, but i am certain he would have loved and supported me through my transition.

Maybe its just because i’m poly, but this reeks of unhealthy suspicion and insecurity. Don’t get me wrong, cheating is bad and this post probably comes from first hand experience, but it just seems controlling.

He/they and they/he are basically the same. Some people use the order to denote a preference, so He/They would be like “call me either one, but use He more often.”

But mostly the order doesnt matter.