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Cake day: January 22nd, 2025

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  • Or maybe he just wasn’t in the mood? Despite the tropes, men don’t want sex ALL the time, and just like women don’t want to be responsible for the feelings of men, we don’t want to always be responsible for quelling the insecurities of women. This doesn’t even have to be a gendered thing. No one wants to be the only source of validation for their partner. Often we hope they are on some level emotionally mature and self assured.

    OP was doing the person equivalent of a cat walking across your keyboard because you were typing instead of petting.



  • It always breaks me up a little how important HP was to my friend groups growing up. I mean, all the way into my mid-20s. My trans friends and neurospicy friends both loved Harry Potter, going so far as having themed Christmas stockings. All of those happy memories, all of that money given to someone who turned out to be so spiteful. I can’t look at HP the same way anymore. So many HP fans were queer. It just hurts in a way I can’t fully express. more so that people still support her product.





  • I was pissed when I got to college and learned the truth about the black panthers, police history, labor history, etc. it’s not ALL bad either. Vigilance committees in some places were actually pretty okay by some standards. The Montana Vigilance Committee for example. Still, it wasn’t even college. It was the internet. It was teaching myself by listening to podcasts, reading books, watching videos on old YT that were more than 2 minutes long.