Echedelle (she/her)

I am a 25 years old trans girl, vegan, neurodivergent (Autism and ADD), nyanya, System Administrator and Web Developer.

My pronouns are she/her but I prefer if you use my name instead. And around my sexual and romantic orientation, I am demiromantic and aegosexual.

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Cake day: August 18th, 2023

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  • Definitively lived this.

    When you are poor is like if options did not exist and when you want something you are expected to have rich money and a wallet on fire if you want to be taken seriously in the face of those. Mostly seen this in north/central europeans and USonian circles.

    Is like the expectation that if you are an illustrator por a designer you have to afford a Mac, own an iPhone and be dumb in tech because you want it easy and you have money and time (parents made it easy for you) so you can dedicate yourself to your passion.

    When you dont have any of that “skill issue”.





  • Could be that the dysphoria is societal dysphoria or other kind. Like expectations to them. I have faced this towards my body hair.

    I feel uncomfy to go out in other things than jeans and high tigh and is mostly this. That does not means I needed full epilation but a environment where I felt safe to be myself there and not to worry for some hair in my legs.


  • Being from the Caribbean and speaking Spanish (and your country being spanish speaking) you may feel comfy and safe in the Canary Islands. The problem is that you need a person who can support you and host you while you are getting all your papers in order. And also the housing situation is complicated for locals. That is why I recommend having someone inside to host you and such initially.

    A part of the island where I live is very mixed in population coming from Cuba, Santo Domingo, Republica Dominicana, etc.

    Once you are resident here, you may apply for spanish citizenship after 2 years because you come from a country with connections with it.