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  • I’ve always found this tricky ground to walk on.

    You see a girl you’re attracted to and you’re single. You try some way to shoot your shot, get noticed, whatever, and try to make some sort of connection and it generally goes one of three ways.

    • She’s interested and it works.
    • She’s intrigued but act like she’s not.
    • She’s not interested.

    Regardless of which of the above is your scenario, if a girl immediately says, “I have a boyfriend,” with no other response, then unfortunately you’ve fallen into that third category.

    Surprisingly, I’ve fallen into that second category a few times when I thought she wasn’t interested and then in speaking to them later, I was asked why didn’t I try harder.

    I’ve also fallen into that third category a bunch.

    The original post is a valid point, but I think it’s lacking context. Relationships and dating is messy.