Hi, I’m Amy.

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I live in Japan. Talk to me about Haskell, Scheme, and Linux.

日本語も通じます。

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Cake day: October 17th, 2025

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  • One thing I would point out is that social transition isn’t just getting others to see you as a woman; it’s learning to accept yourself as one too. That doesn’t happen without effort and practice, and using new pronouns is one part of that.

    I see a lot of posts online by easily passing people who insist that HRT is doing nothing for them. Maybe they’re trolls, but I started girlmoding immediately and I started being gendered female a long time before I was able to see it for myself.














  • Congratulations! A couple of tips:

    Makeup is as difficult as you want to make it. Tutorials on YouTube are a good way to get an idea for what you can do, but the only way to really figure it out is to practice. I’d suggest learning one thing at a time, and if you like how it looks it’s not wrong! For me the most effective things are mascara, eyebrows, eyeliner, and foundation, roughly in that order. It took me a ridiculously long time and a lot of different products before I got anywhere with eyeliner, btw.

    As for clothes, yes, wear what makes you happy! Be aware if you’re buying online that stuff that looks good on the model may not suit you. And your shape will change a lot on HRT, so don’t give up hope!

    Good luck <3