Not saying I’d do this, but…I’m kinda easy :P

  • Lily@lemmy.zipEnglish
    14·
    5 days ago

    That happened to me, ended differently.

    And no I didn’t consent to be touched, fuck them and people harassing. Probably will not go clubbing again unless I’m in a safe group.

    • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      8·
      5 days ago

      Fuck…I’m so sorry to hear that 🫂
      That’s neither funny nor okay to do, to anyone for any reason. Fuck those people
      I hope you’re doing better…🩵

    • fonix232@fedia.io
      5·
      5 days ago

      And that’s why I do t go to clubs.

      I’m horrible at reading body language directed at me, so I either end up doing something inappropriate because I misread the situation, or, the much more likely scenario is, I end up doing nothing when I was given the (not so) clear signal…

      • Axolotl@feddit.itEnglish
        7·
        4 days ago

        I wonder why the fuck we cannot just talk, we ain’t birds who have to make signals

        • jacksilver@lemmy.worldEnglish
          4·
          4 days ago

          Most of the clubs I’ve been to I can’t even hear myself think, let alone have a conversation.

        • fonix232@fedia.io
          3·
          4 days ago

          Because people aren’t comfortable talking. And it does make it awkward when e.g. you’re dancing with someone. “hey can I touch your waist” etc.