Waiting for my car to cool down and sweating my soul out through my body. Its a good day tho! Got a tiny bit of tanning in before groceries!

This summer is going to suuuuuck so much

17 days! 😱

  • Jul (they/she)@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    5·
    10 days ago

    Yikes, sucks that the heat effects you so intensely. I have the opposite problem, so I love the heat, though I also have A/C for nighttime when the nights sometimes get too hot to sleep.

    • brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      5·
      10 days ago

      Yeah im not a summer person for sure, too many bugs and allergies and sweat and just ick. Thankfully rivers exist! ❤️❤️

  • chosensilence@pawb.socialEnglish
    4·
    10 days ago

    it was 48 here. i’m sorry but can’t help to be jealous lmao. please send some warmth to frozen cold ass Wisconsin. i’m tired. it’s goddamn the middle of May.

    • brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      3·
      9 days ago

      Counter counterpoint: AC and comfy bed with snacks 😍

      Seriously though, im trying to maintain a confidence level thatll allow me to keep wearing dresses and skirts this summer cause its gonna be soooo much hotter. Plus doing my hrt appt in 15 days, i really dont wanna start that and then boy mode all fucking summer lmao ❤️

      • Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        2·
        9 days ago

        I totally understand the fear, I’m there too. Wishing you all the strength and confidence.

        I have recently bought summery girl pants (like these)

        They are helping me not feel like I’m wearing boy clothes when I’m not in a place I can wear a skirt.

        • brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
          1·
          8 days ago

          Whatever works in this scary world honestly, im glad those help you!

          To be honest im well past hidey clothes in general. I have worn a sundress in public this year on our first hot day. More recently its been legging shorts and skirts.

          Its more just giving less of a fuck about what others think and making it more about what i think of myself. Its like a scale, my thoughts on one side, others on the other. The more i do it, the less weight others thoughts have on my scale. All that weight gets added to my side when i love myself and am generally happier.

          Eventually my side will fully outweigh the other side, and there will be no going back after that. Ill be free, out, and proud. And most importantly, happy ❤️❤️