• velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    5 days ago

    Absolutely agree on the word chivalry being outdated.

    Word evolution and etymology are always interesting topics to banter about. Chivalry clearly has a different modern definition than it’s origins. Maybe we could help redefine it further? Or come up with another way of expressing something similar.

    Like, I think women can be chivalrous. Does that inherently balance the definition or is chivalry always considered a male trait?

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      5 days ago

      I don’t think the modern definition is clear at all. Which is why we are here.

      I think the word should be decommissioned, as well as the concept of any gender treating any other gender differently than they would treat their own.

      If someone asks, “how should a man treat a woman?” The answer should always be, “like a man would treat a man.”

      Maybe I’m just too damn chivalrous. ;)

      • velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        5 days ago

        I just said the modern version is clearly different, not that the definition itself is clear.

        …Do you think I’m arguing with you?

        I don’t agree that being chivalrous inherently means treating different genders differently.