LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneM to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days agoWhat’s one thing you’re trying to be gentler with yourself about?message-squaremessage-square15linkfedilinkarrow-up139arrow-down10
arrow-up139arrow-down1message-squareWhat’s one thing you’re trying to be gentler with yourself about?LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneM to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days agomessage-square15linkfedilink
minus-squaregarbagebagel@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up23·2 days agoUgh my weight/diet. I’ve been with a therapist long enough to understand where it’s coming from though so now I just hear my mother’s voice criticizing me and then I get mad at it and then I feel guilty for being mad at it so I guess I still need a few more sessions.
minus-squareLady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7·2 days agoThings that we learn in childhood are so hard to unlearn, they’re ingrained into us. Well done for working on it
Ugh my weight/diet.
I’ve been with a therapist long enough to understand where it’s coming from though so now I just hear my mother’s voice criticizing me and then I get mad at it and then I feel guilty for being mad at it so I guess I still need a few more sessions.
Things that we learn in childhood are so hard to unlearn, they’re ingrained into us. Well done for working on it