• Hegar@fedia.io
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    10 days ago

    I would maintain that the person is the vehicle. We are inseperable from our bodies - to love a person is to love a body.

    My partner and i both intended to spend the rest of our lives together - 9 years so far. Like ~70% of my relationships, it started as an everything attraction - body, style, behaviour, thoughts, ethics, the whole shebang. I’ve had a few relationships where mostly i just thought the other person was hot, but even then we shared something - values, outlooks, hobbies.

    “Twin Flame” is an awkward term - it’s very closely tied to an abusive, controlling cult. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twin_Flames_Universe

    • Oka@sopuli.xyz
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      9 days ago

      I hear you, and I respect that opinion. Im not spiritual myself and avoid cults (religion and MLMs included) like the plague. I know what my partner means though lol theyre open minded