• Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online
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    1 month ago

    I’ve been a grandma for 20 years lol. Grandma still smokes hella weed and has an active romantic life but that’s not the world’s business.

    I’m glad the youth (seem to be) deciding they don’t need to present a “desirable” image to the world and can be cozy. Nothing wrong with choosing to present yourself as youthful and attractive if that’s what feels right! The point is it should be your choice. We exist for more than public consumption.

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      1 month ago

      I’ve been a grandma for 20 years lol. Grandma still smokes hella weed and has an active romantic life but that’s not the world’s business.

      Goals for real <3

    • applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      1 month ago

      i spent way too long presenting the way i thought the world wanted me to. these days im presenting the way i want for myself and no one else. some days thats pure comfy with no thought for aesthetics, some days its dressing to the nines cause i want to feel pretty and sexy, and most days its a mix. if people vibe with that, fuck yeah. if they dont they can keep it to themselves. lol is this being a grandma?