Just a quick post to remind my older girlies that its never too late ❤️

Im 32, struggle a lot with having waited too long or being too late. Its not true! Its never too late to be happy. Its never too late to stop hating yourself. Its never too late, regardless of what other people say or think.

You do this for you and your happiness and noone should take that from you.

I LOVE OUR OVER 30’S OVER 40’S AND BEYOND! It shouldnt be lost on the younger people that trans people didnt make it to those ages historically, and im so happy your here now ❤️❤️

Plus, some of our most gorgeous girls are over 30 and 40 😍😍

Ily all, dont let the bastards grind you down! ❤️❤️❤️

  • Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    2·
    1 month ago

    I woke up this morning crying, thinking of the time I’ve lost transitioning at 38. It’s something I will always feel a deep pain about. The only thing sadder would be waiting any longer. I’ve never been happier than I am now.

    • brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      1·
      1 month ago

      Aww girl im sorry. I wont lie those feelings hit and when they do they hit hard. I wish we didnt have to feel that 💔

      As they say, the best time to start is yesterday, the second best time is today. Itd be worse if we didnt do it at all. The amount that i hated myself before all this, idk that i woulda survived past my 30’s. It was horrible, painful, and just made me not want to live. And i never knew why!!

      I thank gaia every day for finding the trans communities, egg_irl, traaaaaaaaans, mtf, trans_joy, all of it

      I wouldnt have survived otherwise

      Im glad youre here, im sorry you woke crying. I hope you have an absolutely beautiful day and everything you want and more happens today ❤️❤️

      • Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        2·
        1 month ago

        Thank you sweetie. I’m trying to keep reminding myself that I’m going through puberty again right now and big emotions are a part of it.

        So glad we both made it xx

        • brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
          1·
          1 month ago

          Omg girl the emotional swings are crazzzyyy

          I cried at a trans person being accepted by family today, wasnt even real, just an animated video

          I also cried at a song thats not even sad really the other day 😭

          Im a mess lol

          Im glad your here tooo ❤️

          • Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
            2·
            1 month ago

            Kindof love being able to cry ngl. It was one of the effects I was most excited for and I really love it. I cry so much now. Mostly happy cries but today was a big sad. I’m through the other side of it now mostly. Night night Brooke (from UK timezone)

            • brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
              1·
              1 month ago

              I love being able to access that part of myself too its wonderful, can get annoying sometimes tho 😂

              Nighty night girly sweet dreams! ❤️❤️