• Which mods/admins were being Power Tripping Bastards?

A mod in [email protected]

  • What sanction did they impose (e.g. community ban, instance ban, removed comment)?

Deleted comment comment on Healthy ruleationships in [email protected]
Reason: Rude and excessively confrontational
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  • Provide a screenshot of the relevant modlog entries (don’t de-obfuscate mod names).

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  • Provide a screenshot and explanation of the cause of the sanction (e.g. the post/comment that was removed, or got you banned).

notice my jovial “⚡”🔗

  • Explain why you think its unfair and how you would like the situation to be remedied.

Removal of a very cordial & jovial explanation of my anarchist stance regarding monogamy was misread as “rude and confrontational.” I ended conversations respectfully, not expecting backlashes of monogamists in what I thought was a very sarcastic post “Healthy ruleationships.” All I want is the comments returned. The thread can stay locked if the community wishes, and I will not engage in it anymore.

That is all.

  • Hm… It seems like we have different interpretations of “patronizing”?

    This line sounds patronizing to me:

    Remember, the sweetest revenge against your haters is to live your best life.

    but what you called out as patronizing is this:

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    I have to agree with this bit in response:

    I don’t even know what you are trying to claim?

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      Remember, the sweetest revenge against your haters is to live your best life.

      I didn’t make that line! @[email protected] did, and that comment is still up!

      what you called out as patronizing is this

      Show the full part about dishonesty! That comment doesn’t even show up on the logs!

      I don’t even know what you are trying to claim?

      I already explained myself to @[email protected] cordially. Did you not read the rest of that on purpose‽

      • I didn’t make that line! @[email protected] did, and that comment is still up!

        I know, and I’m saying that that part of what was said to you did sound patronizing, but you didn’t call that out and instead called out something non-patronizing

        Show the full part about dishonesty! That comment doesn’t even show up on the logs!

        That part is irrelevant to whether you were being patronized

        I already explained myself to @[email protected] cordially. Did you not read the rest of that on purpose‽

        I did read it, and I understood it but, like someone else said, you seemed to be having your own 1-sided conversation at them. You quoted them but weren’t actually responding to what you were quoting

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          did read it, and I understood it but, like someone else said, you seemed to be having your own 1-sided conversation at them. You quoted them but weren’t actually responding to what you were quoting

          I wouldn’t say they were attempting to be super rude or anything, maybe a bit sassy if anything, but I didn’t mind. My biggest issue was that there were a lot of miscommunications and lack of clarity, I think mainly due to their responses being a bit logically scattered. They tended to make leaps in conclusions, causing them to make rebuttals against claims I never made.