My left had has more dexterity/fine motor skills, so I write and eat left handed. My right has more strength so I throw or bowl right handed. When learning guitar, someone pushed a left handed guitar at me and it didn’t make sense; strumming is mostly strength no dex, so I play “right” handed. Guitar Hero messed me up though, both ways felt equally wrong and correct somehow.

Definitely!! I got that professor a 2nd time and was the same nightmare. Was told there was no way to guarantee I wouldn’t get her a 3rd time when I reached out to the school as long as I was on the honors path.

Checked my credits and requirements and I was at a point where I graduate under honors anyway, so I just dropped that path! Not worth the headaches and frustration, I would have dropped even if I hadn’t met the credit hours, just would have thought about it longer before I did. Dropped the path like 2 wks in but didn’t want to go through trying to get my class changed so I just slogged through it.

I’m in my late 40’s and going back to school via online courses. I about pulled what’s left of my hair out going round and round with a professor that kept marking me off, with a note stating “You should not use chat or AI programs to do your work”. The work that I wrote.
Had not even thought to use any; Im old and set in my ways already, have enough going on making sure I am using the right class programs needed and, this was a required side course, not really anything difficult to me yet (could have skipped it if my previous schooling hadn’t been sooo far previous).

Took over a dozen emails back and forth with me begging her to tell me how she surmised my writing was done by anything other than myself. Offering to have a 1:1 video session where she could watch me write, offering to record myself and send it alongside my work, anything.
She finally responded that she goes online and has AI tell her if a submitted document was written by AI. Never would say which site(s) so that I could do my own pre-checking, nothing on our library site or course links and documents that referred one to use either.

So. That is how I started using AI and let various chat programs complete the remainder of that course for me. Since, for some unholy reason, the assignments done that way were no longer flagged for AI use.
This is also how I learned I despise this technology and that cunt who can go fuck off with her own AI loving, short cut using, bitch ass.

I’m late back to the party but, thank you!! That actually helps a lot!
I keep my hair very, very short, its super fine and flat so short gives it a little more body. … and sometimes I do want to “do my hair nice” but don’t want to deal with all that hair daily, for random one-offs, lol.

First/last time I looked into wigs, I was totally overwhelmed, with all the associated products and no guides on any of the seller’s sites, on what to do with them all, or which may be needed. …which is probably a little funny coming from someone who is totally at ease with mixing various hazardous chemicals to bleach and or color my own hair 😅

How much media that is put out is just because people engage with scandalous shit? If people didn’t, we might not have had to deal with reality shows or viral media apps. Of course there will be people using social media that want to be part of that. Sex and scandals sell.

I do think it’s odd that you think that me sharing my own views is patronizing you. I just gave my 2cents, from my personal experience, relating to cheating partners. Not all cheaters are poly, seen many cheaters choose a monogamous relationship later in life. They were just too cowardly to be open and honest with their partner(s) or worse (in my opinion), openly lied to a partner about their cheating. Some were poly, and it was a realization they were aiming for a relationship they didn’t really want, but had been raised by a society that said they did, and had tried to believe it. Does not excuse the cheating though.

My real only point is/was: Whatever your sexual preferences are, lying to an intimate partner about who you are intimate with is a shit move, and makes that liar shitty.

That link shows a chicken with pigtails?

Anyway… being poly isn’t a bad thing. Being poly and lying to a partner that your monogamous, kinda is. If one party of a relationship changes their mind after commitments are made, the other party should be made aware before anything is acted on. If not, they are a lying piece of shit that can’t be trusted. Pretending to be monogamous just to trick someone into a relationship until your bored with them, despicable.

Edit, lost my last word on posting.

As someone who has had super short vivid hair, for like 20+yrs…
how do you wear a wig? I’ve peeked into them a couple times and got a bit overwhelmed. Do I need a cap thingy first? Also, how do you make sure it stays in place or the hairline edge thingy stays down?

Also want to add to anyone getting into diy bold colors, petroleum jelly along the hairline, nape and ears before starting.
Makeup remover is pretty good at removing any skin stains that do happen.
And there are a few colored shampoo and/or conditioner brands that do great at keeping your colors bright (also good for layering/blending different colors!)

I wouldn’t have gone to the site if you wouldn’t have noted that!

That was actually a bit more interesting than I expected. The funeral homes sued her for practicing without a license as funeral director/embalmer. Which, isn’t what they do. But they do probably take money away from funeral homes by discussing different ways to go.
I myself, really want to be put in a body farm!!