You’re rocking it girl!!

Funny that’s pretty much exactly what I discussed in therapy last week lol. I’m sure being your harshest critic is something that many or most struggle with. Thanks for the reminder to be intentional about speaking self-love <3

It’s been 2+ years for me so my girls definitely didn’t just appear overnight (especially with my food struggles), but they’re for sure one of the few aspects of my genetics that I’m not angry with lol.

I’m pretty privacy minded myself so I understand that, but if you feel up for it then you totally should :)

Thankks! Honestly I’m way overdue on my hair routine, maybe soon I’ll post one when it’s nice and clean :)

Aw thanks love! Also you’re soo pretty, I love when your posts pop up on my feed :)

Hopefully my drinking habits. It’s always been a struggle for me, but post surgery depression a couple months ago really made it a big problem. This week I’m trying to start fresh and emphasize self-love. High hopes but low expectations of myself.

Slightly underdressed! Partially because I don’t look as good in all of the styles that I wish I could pull off (who does?), but also because I try to spin that negative mindset into using my position of being a feminine enby to help lower the social/beauty standards of how women are expected to look 24/7. Not trying to sound annoyingly altruistic in my answer…I just find it healing on how I perceive myself compared to other women, and it helps ground my expectations of myself just a bit.

Last year I paired a humankind top (it’s basically a sports bra for water) with a pair of solid-colored swim shorts from the guys’ section. The shorts have a shorter inseam but in a “men’s” way so I still get plenty of bum coverage. I feel cute in the combo, but more importantly it covers what I need to cover and (for better) does the opposite of sexualize me.

That said I definitely want to find a cute one-piece that I’m comfortable in!

🥰