

Are you familiar with the concept of cultural Judaism? Jewish is unique in describing a religion, an ethnicity, and a cultural group. Someone can be raised in Jewish faith and culture, walk away from the religious aspect, but still retain much of the culture. Someone like Einstein was culturally Jewish. He was open about and identified with his heritage, but he was an atheist in terms of belief.
I would say you’re culturally gay. You had your most formative years in the gay community. You may no longer meet the definition of ‘gay’ as an orientation, but you’re still culturally gay. If you spend long enough time in a community, you can retain cultural attachments to that community even if you no longer meet the defining central feature uniting that community.








I want to get a telescoping flag pole. That way when someone wicked dies, I can fly the flag at DOUBLE mast.