• Dave@lemmy.nz
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    8 months ago

    NGL, if I was vegan and went to visit my inlaws and they made me pick out the meat chunks, that’s pretty shit hospitality.

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      8 months ago

      Her parents cook twice when we visited them, but the extra work was shared between both her parents so it was fine.

      My mother’s the only one that cooks. Her cuisine is very traditional. My ex understood this

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        8 months ago

        Perhaps when a new person joins their life they could consider learning new things to go with the old. Thats just a hope at least.

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      8 months ago

      it’s also important to be a good guest. a host isn’t a servant. they didn’t make anyone do anything; they offered food and shared their home, and that’s pretty cool.

      also, doesn’t sound like in-laws. “dated” implies casuality, and also past tense.

      • blackris@discuss.tchncs.de
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        8 months ago

        No, fuck that. A host isn’t a servant, fine. But if they knew the person and still made only food, they had to pick shit out, they are just bad hosts.

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          8 months ago

          I’m wondering if they even told them they were vegan. Its not hard to cook meat separately and let people mix it back into the veggies and whatever else.