• velma@sh.itjust.works
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    19 hours ago

    You agreed to adhere to community specific rules when you made an account.

    Have you considered maybe it’s your problem your problem for creating a community in a federated system, and then posting in it,

    Yeah, it’s women’s problem for having our own community. What the fuck, dude?

    • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.netBanned from community
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      19 hours ago

      No I didn’t? You do know there are different rules for different instances, right?

      Read the whole thing. “All” is feature. People are going to come in not knowing the rules and needing to be informed. If that’s a problem for you and you find it so triggering, you can move to a closed off platform.

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        19 hours ago

        You’re the only one triggered here bud. We’re where we should be, but you got your feelings hurt so you need to stay and argue about it.

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            19 hours ago

            Way to put your problems on women. You’re really helping out with your advice now.

            • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.netBanned from community
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              19 hours ago

              Not women, just rude people. Don’t hide behind the fact you’re a women. It’s not a shield you can use to cast off blame.

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                18 hours ago

                Blame for what exactly? Calling someone out who can’t help but give unsolicited advice and invade women’s spaces? I wonder what that says about you.

                • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.netBanned from community
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                  18 hours ago

                  Being rude to someone who was ignorant but trying to help. As I’ve said in another comment, I’m ready to be done with this pointless arguing. Just making the final point that it’s possible to politely tell someone they messed up and are doing something wrong. I’m sure that’s what you would do in real life because it’s what most people do; it doesn’t have to be different just because you are in the internet.

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                    18 hours ago

                    Your mistake was pointed out. You kept talking.

                    I assure you I am exactly like this in real life to people like you.

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                    18 hours ago

                    I’m going to second Wren. I’m also like this in real life to sexist men like you.

                    Someone has to stand up to men who insist they know better.

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            19 hours ago

            Proving once again that there are men that refuse to do the necessary work and will attack women instead of looking inward.

                • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.netBanned from community
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                  18 hours ago

                  And if you just politely made that clear at the start, I would have stopped. But you decided to be unnecessarily rude.

                  All I’m doing now is replying to people who decided rudeness was the way to go. You can stop replying and I will as well, you can block me, or you can report me and wait until I’m banned.

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                    18 hours ago

                    I’m not one to shut up when a man tells me to.

                    I’ll roll in the mud with you. I don’t give a fuck. You’re displaying rapist tendencies in here and it’s disgusting.

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        19 hours ago

        Usually when people break the rules, they are polite and then stop the rule breaking.

        You’re doubling down and insisting on forcing yourself on us.

        • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.netBanned from community
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          19 hours ago

          You were not polite with pointing out the (clearly accidental and easy to make) rule break, why would I be polite? I was polite to the other person and in my original comment.

          You can block people, and this is an open forum. As long as I’m not blocked, you are by default consenting to me replying and talking to you. It’s how this works.

            • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.netBanned from community
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              19 hours ago

              Not to you, no. But I already made that clear, as well as why. But you’ve also made you’re not very bright.

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                19 hours ago

                Rules…

                Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women’s community is a good fit for them.

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        19 hours ago

        I can see your instance, it’s not secret.

        When going to other communities, respect their rules AND our rules when they are more restrictive. Do not give cause for others to de-federate our instance please.

        Edit: apologies for being blunt, I thought you were The Terrible Humbaba that I was conversing with - regardless, your instance does require you to adhere to community specific rules.