• JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    I’m vegetarian. My partner is not. We mostly buy and eat vegetarian, but occasionally they’d like some real chicken or beef. I’ll even cook it for them, no problem. I just don’t eat it. It’s really easy to be in this type of relationship actually.

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      8 months ago

      Of course, as vegetarians are carnists. Two carnists in a relationship is standard.

      ‘I still think animals are products so don’t mind when others also do’

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        8 months ago

        You don’t realize it, but this is actually a non sequitur. You’re right, I am a carnist! I don’t see a moral issue with a human (animal) eating an animal or animal based product. In fact, lots of animals eat animals!

        You’re wrong, however, to say that I view animals as products. I do take issue with the industries relating to animal consumption. I take issue with the damage they do to the planet, I take issue with the way they treat the animals, and I take issue with the hygiene and working conditions for those involved. Ideally, I’d live in a world where it was possible to morally eat whatever you fancy. Unfortunately, I live in a world where you have to eat what you can afford.

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          8 months ago

          Depends on the situation, if you’re a hunter gatherer and it’s your only source of sustinance sure, if you can get whatever you want from the supermarket choosing to still eat animals that’s needlessly cruel

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              8 months ago

              legumes and plant stuff is generally cheaper than animal stuff, so it’s a good way to save too potentially

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                8 months ago

                Literally the only animal products I consume are ones that are cheaper to buy than alternatives: dairy cheese and eggs.

                I spend extra on alternative milks. Alternative eggs are more expensive or significantly more effort (yes tofu scramble is doable. No I don’t have the time). I could live without cheese, or on alternative cheeses. But, cheese actually makes up a pretty large sum of calorie intake because it is cheap and can be made to be relatively healthy in most dishes.

                It all boils down to money. I already spend extra money on alternative meats, and milks and raw fruits and vegetables. I still have to have money for my other responsibilities, so I make some dietary sacrifices. But I’m sure that poverty isn’t a good enough reason to sacrifice my purity to most vegans.

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                  8 months ago

                  The time, for tofu scramble? It’s literally quicker cheaper and much healthier than doing it with eggs???

                  Same thing with egg salad, etc. few packs of silken tofu in a Tupperware with black salt, butter, etc.

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                    8 months ago

                    any sources on eggs being unhealthy? I don’t eat them for ethical reasons but I thought they were full of good nutrients and minerals and such

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            8 months ago

            Vegetarians aren’t carnists. Being reductionist is an immature thing. We do that for children so they can grasp things before they are ready for the full details.

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              8 months ago

              I’m sorry, what? Do vegetarians not see themselves as having dominion over animals to do with what they please?

              Carnism is a concept used in discussions of humanity’s relation to other animals, defined as a prevailing ideology in which people support the use and consumption of animal products

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        I swear to god lemmy has the highest ratio of angsty purity testers I’ve ever seen.

        I’ve never been any place online where people hate other people that match with them like 99% of the way so god damn much.

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          8 months ago

          For real, I think it’s due to the nature of this being an Indi alternative platform. It is filled with extremists and people who get kicked out of other places.

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            Remember, the first real big explosion in users came from when reddit restricted its API. So, by definition, a bunch of angsty users resistant to change and intolerant of opposing viewpoints.

            During that original exodus, people remarked how friendly and tolerant and how people were willing to have constructive debate here. In reality, they were all united under their intolerance and hate for reddit.

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                  Your point is that people who left a platform because it made decisions they disagreed with don’t like it anymore? Shocking

                  Reddit is still the best place to go for a lot of niche communities you can’t really find anywhere else. That doesn’t change the fact that it has a lot of issues that stem from both the community culture there and the C-suite execs calling the shots, making it worse at every turn in pursuit of profit.

                  You’ll find I have similar opinions of most large social media companies. I just don’t talk about them as much because they were never appealing to me in the first place. Reddit had its problems dating wayy back but I enjoyed it for what it offered. You gotta draw the line somewhere, and I drew mine at the API shenanigans

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        8 months ago

        Dairy cows and hens are still destined for the meat grinder, regardless of the vegetarian’s choices.

        So you’re absolutely right. Sad to see the downvotes