• Wren@lemmy.todayOP
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    That’s your problem for not curating your feed.

    You’re not helping anyone. You’re a man in a women’s community giving unsolicited advice to a woman.

    You don’t need a disclaimer, you need to shut up and listen.

    • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.netBanned from community
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      The “All” page is a feature and meant to be used. Have you considered maybe it’s your problem your problem for creating a community in a federated system, and then posting in it, where anyone can just bump into your post and interact with it? I don’t even look at the community of most posts which show up.

      I was going to stop commenting and just leave it there, but if you’re gonna decide to be a condescending dick, I can be a dick as well.

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        You agreed to adhere to community specific rules when you made an account.

        Have you considered maybe it’s your problem your problem for creating a community in a federated system, and then posting in it,

        Yeah, it’s women’s problem for having our own community. What the fuck, dude?

        • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.netBanned from community
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          No I didn’t? You do know there are different rules for different instances, right?

          Read the whole thing. “All” is feature. People are going to come in not knowing the rules and needing to be informed. If that’s a problem for you and you find it so triggering, you can move to a closed off platform.

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            You’re the only one triggered here bud. We’re where we should be, but you got your feelings hurt so you need to stay and argue about it.

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                Way to put your problems on women. You’re really helping out with your advice now.

                • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.netBanned from community
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                  Not women, just rude people. Don’t hide behind the fact you’re a women. It’s not a shield you can use to cast off blame.

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                    Blame for what exactly? Calling someone out who can’t help but give unsolicited advice and invade women’s spaces? I wonder what that says about you.

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                Proving once again that there are men that refuse to do the necessary work and will attack women instead of looking inward.

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            Usually when people break the rules, they are polite and then stop the rule breaking.

            You’re doubling down and insisting on forcing yourself on us.

            • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.netBanned from community
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              You were not polite with pointing out the (clearly accidental and easy to make) rule break, why would I be polite? I was polite to the other person and in my original comment.

              You can block people, and this is an open forum. As long as I’m not blocked, you are by default consenting to me replying and talking to you. It’s how this works.

                • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.netBanned from community
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                  Not to you, no. But I already made that clear, as well as why. But you’ve also made you’re not very bright.

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                    Rules…

                    Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women’s community is a good fit for them.

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            I can see your instance, it’s not secret.

            When going to other communities, respect their rules AND our rules when they are more restrictive. Do not give cause for others to de-federate our instance please.

            Edit: apologies for being blunt, I thought you were The Terrible Humbaba that I was conversing with - regardless, your instance does require you to adhere to community specific rules.

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        Have you considered paying attention? You earned whatever you got here.

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          Ok, and you’ve earned my continued replies by being an asshole 🤷

          If I’m not allowed to comment, then I have nothing to lose by being banned, therefore I’ll keep throwing stones back as they are thrown at me.

          • Wren@lemmy.todayOP
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            Where was the stone in that one? Come on. My comebacks were way better than that.

            • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.netBanned from community
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              Your comment or mine? You said I earned whatever I got. I called you an asshole. Are you arguing the quality of the insults? I didn’t realise this was a diss battle, or whatever.

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                You said you were gonna throw stones. I assumed that meant you had some.

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                Rules…

                Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women’s community is a good fit for them.

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            therefore I’ll keep throwing stones back as they are thrown at me.

            Men like you are why I’m such a fucking pain in the ass on this site.